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Hi
I sent my proof of my PR via email to my local council / School admissions over a month ago to find out what school my son is currently attending
I phoned them last week to see if they received my email they confirmed yes
But they are refusing to disclose the school
What can I do now please?
Many thanks
I don't think there is anywhere else to turn? Did they give an explanation as to why they cannot disclose this information? I assume they asked you to submit proof of PR so you can get this info? Maybe your ex has told them you are a risk to the child and asked them not to disclose it?
Have you tried mediation or going through the court to discuss access to the child yet? I would imagine that is one way around it.
You could try the local education authority, but I would imagine you might need proof of a court order if you have one - bear in mind that the birth certificate is proof of PR, but in situations where the child is in danger of some kind, the LEA could be endangering that child by giving out such information purely based on PR, so I suspect this is why they are being cautious.
This is disgusting and sexist I have PR stamped by Judge - I managed to get info when he was in primary school but now struggling with is secondary school
This is just another way of controlling by my EX and her father
I did apply for mediation numerous of times my ex refused
i am up against Parental alienation and the courts are useless
I don't know how much more i can take - My mental health is in decline with high blood pressure
I've not seen my so since 2007
my son is being abused and the culprits are being left to do it
If she has refused mediation, you will have to submit a C100 form to discuss access in court. If you feel your son is being abused, you will need to raise that to social services so they can take action. It does sound like this will have to go through court as your ex doesnt seem interested in discussing this with you directly.
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