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Cos she’s filed it ex parte she’s have said if you knew you’d have tried to manipulate the situation to prevent her going to court or she’s too scared of you finding out etc . That’s what happened to me . Most solicitors offer a free 30/ 60 minute basic advise session. I’d strongly suggest you utilise one and it won’t cost you .
As with all non mol apps you have to disprove each and every allegation one by one . The courts are used to seeing and hearing all this rubbish being made up . Whatever you have to disprove her like emails , texts etc use . If you have been having regular contact alone with your kids include all thst , being on holiday etc with them and so on . A lot of it depends on the judge on the day . Also do not contact your ex at all . She’ll just use it to draw you into An argument and get you arrested . If you’ve been severed an order ex parte they have to have a return hearing so you can argue against it .
City Dad is So So on the money I’ve also been there going through x can be demanding etc
They will use everything at against you and more.
so be watchful think twice
Just don’t contact her at all . They try all sorts to rile you . Keep your reply factual use everything you have to proove she’s not telling the court the truth. You show her to be a liar on one accusation the rest follows . If you have kids that are old enough and they’ll give a positive account of you you can always ask them to be party to the proceedings too
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