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Well guys we're almost at a year since my Partner last seen or had any contact with his child. Enforcement proceedings started 11 months ago and despite the Guardian recommending Enforcement and contact reinstated, Mother is still refusing any form of contact hiding behind the child's wishes & feelings again. After numerous court appearances, the Guardian & Judge have now decided it's time a psychologist was involved so Mother, child and my Partner are to be assessed separately. The child has been even more brainwashed and Mother stands in court declaring "she supports contact in principal but is standing by child's wishes".
The child was 8 when this started and we are 3.5 years down the line and still no further forward. In those 3.5 years, my Partner has been blocked from seeing his child for 2.5 years in total by an unbelievably selfish woman who needs dealt with. The Court tip-toe around her when they know full well she's the problem. It's about time the Courts got their act together and grow a set and deal with these evil cretins but as we know, Its a clear money spinner and the only losers are the child and the alienated parent. It's so sad.
Yes we've got to see it through to the bitter end and hope justice prevails.
I understand your frustration...it's been, and still is, an arduous journey for you all, not least the poor child stuck in the middle. I sincerely hope that the psychologist is worth their salt and will report back to the court what the mother has done.
All the best
Thank you
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