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Hi Guys,
Well it’s been another rollercoaster month or so, had SS round for the 2nd interview for the S7 which I will receive next week, they’re saying they’re recommending a 3 month extension from court next week to facilitate interim contact starting from Xmas time weekly.
I don’t believe a word they say I’m not getting my hopes up but we shall see.
[censored] of a week shortly see the s7, see representation for criminal court and what evidence has been put forward, counselling for domestic abuse on me and the second family court hearing.
I got rail roaded off ss for taking my child and it broke me the affect it had on my child but I know allot of it was beefed up by top.
Ss are saying they want contact to go back to how it was for the past 5 years which was 4 nights me 3 nights top, they’re already indicating 50/50 but I think if that happens contact will be withheld again in the near future. I’ve made my application for full residency and I’m still playing that to everyone only saying to ss I’m open to what they suggest .
My ideal would be 4/7 me with residency and that’s what I would love to happen what’s people’s thoughts on this? I just think top has had sole residency for nearly 8 years and I’ve missed 2 years out of my child’s life through the false allegations numerous ss involvement and police involvement.
I feel like I’ve finally made the break from the constant abuse just to be a dad and never want to go back there, I love my new life now and can’t wait to share it with my child in it.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated and please go easy as I’m worried sick as it is.
Many thanks
Slim
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