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i'm at that point where i fear i'm pretty much done and now at the mercy of CAFCASS and the Courts again.
Psyc report needs to be challenged, especially as what i'm being told i need to seek help for is what every other parent does with their kids - basically encourage them to do things, try things, eat, sleep over, etc... etc... however, because my (child) has said that they were upset by these things that i now have to apologise and get help to be more sensitive to (child).
no support fromt he ex to say that "i'm sure daddy meant well" or "maybe daddy was just trying to get you to eat up or stay longer" oh no....she'll have been straight in saying how insensitive and uncaring i am to(child).... Parental Alienation!!!
My Mackenzie friend has said it would be difficult for them to suggest what i can do next and that i should seriously consider seeking council to work out what the options are to fight on. they've said there should be a way forward but my case has now gone beyond the limits of knowledge of the court processes in family law and that i need legal advice now.
without selling a kidney i have no way of making the funds needed to "seek council"
i don't smoke, don't do drugs, i don't drink to excess, i take my GFout once a month for a meal or drink if she's lucky, i don't have a lavish life style, i'm mostly paying debts from previous legal bills going back over the course of this battle. been on holiday twice in the last 9 years.
it seems unless you have the money the option in extreme implacable hostility cases like mine then you are on a hiding to nothing.
maybe getting a Batman suit is my only option:(
Looks like a hopeless up hill battle
Have you tried the Bar Pro Bono Unit this time around?
Maybe have a look at this site http://www.dadshouse.org.uk/
Wonder if they might be able to signpost you to a local charity closer to you who might be able to assist with the fees for seeking counsel?
What about contacting Brian Cantwell? https://cflnortheast.co.uk/members/brian-cantwell/
Have you tried looking for a lawyer qualified McKenzie that might have a bit more knowledge?
Appreciate the thoughts Yoda i'll have a look at a couple of them.
Not got enough time for the Bar Pro Bono due to needing to get a referal and needing to submit my further questions this week.
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