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Thanks for the advise guys – i looked into FnF i am hoping to go to the next meeting in 2 weeks however i am away on a course return that day hoping i return in time to attend –fingers cross,
I have just finished writing a 3000 word letter in response to child services about their bias report and mentioning their failings to act upon my children’s wishes,
Cafcass have stated that as child services have been involved with the family they have ceased any further involvement – they have not even spoke with ex as she refused the call, they didn’t attend court, Ex hasn’t raised any safe guarding issues against me,
In actual fact ex has not made any response to anything.
I have not received any paperwork from the court stating the new hearing or when to do the statements etc which i was told i would so i shall await and if not here tomorrow will call Thursday,
I have spent over 5 hours just writing to child services, My biggest concern is that ex’s boyfriend has been arrested for DV, Ex admits to SS that children have once witness DV ( i have reported it for over a year) Ex admit her boyfriend has issue with alcohol yet SS seem to let her prioritise her relationship over the children’s welfare and basically blame me for causing friction by raising concerns ?
Surely if DV is proved in a relationship with children present then SS have a duty of care to the children, it’s so confusing,
Never the less 5 weeks to apparent final hearing ! :sick:
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