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my ex and i split up six months ago and we have fallen out several times some due to me and some due to her and each time she has threatened me with going to see a solicitor , so what i want to know is can she keep doing this ? because i back down when she does that i now worry that i am not going to get any say in how the kids are raised and there is already evidence of this happening .
Any advice is appreciated thanks
hi and welcome
threatening to see a solicitor about what exactly? Have you considered mediation to come to an agreement?
I'd say mediation would be a good start for you, that way things would stay calmer during your conversations.
I think your right in what you say if you're thinks that a threat of court will get you to back down she will continue to use it against you.
Darren
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