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The end in sight???
 
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[Solved] The end in sight???

 
(@Mom24)
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Hi All

Well it looks like we have broken Mothers Will to destroy Contact

2nd Contact better than first, The most consistent Contact Father and Son have been allowed to have ( Mother interferes and stops it) in over 2 years.

Can i just add to all those Fathers struggling with this issue, We have had the Ex from [censored], You name it she tried it, Perseverance is definitely the word needed here, 19 court hearings and looks like we are nearing the end...

Keep your head held high your Kids are worth Fighting for...Do not Let any Woman tell you otherwise. You will get there..

xx

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Topic starter Posted : 29/09/2015 8:42 pm
(@Mom24)
Estimable Member Registered

Hi All

Well it looks like we have broken Mothers Will to destroy Contact

2nd Contact better than first, The most consistent Contact Father and Son have been allowed to have ( Mother interferes and stops it) in over 2 years.

Can i just add to all those Fathers struggling with this issue, We have had the Ex from [censored], You name it she tried it, Perseverance is definitely the word needed here, 19 court hearings and looks like we are nearing the end...

Keep your head held high your Kids are worth Fighting for...Do not Let any Woman tell you otherwise. You will get there..

xx

When i look at my Grandson and his Daddy together now...I Feel complete...My Son is Lucky he had Financial backing ( We used all our savings and sold our house)

Throughout this process i have gained a lot of Knowledge re Family law...If i can help anyone on here please feel free to ask...I have payed to learn this Knowledge in a round about way,
Seeing how my Son was kicked my that Evil Ex i would hate to think anyone else would have to endure that.

We are still in the Court Process and probably a few more Hearings...But Onwards and Upwards..

Please Guys Do not let these Evil Women who call themselves Mothers Break You Down..

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Topic starter Posted : 30/09/2015 12:32 pm
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(@lollyrus)
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Thats brilliant.

My Partner's ex is also the ex from [censored] and we hope tomorrow that the Judge will finally sort this stupid woman out.

She has stated to the Court already that she has every intention of continuing to break court orders if she doesn't like what's being ordered.

My Partner had 11 months of no contact whatsoever with his child as she blocked everything and then sits there and says "its the childs wishes and feelings that he doesn't want to see his Father"- complete bull***t. However, much to her disgust the Judge ordered immediate unsupervised contact at the last 'final' hearing and postponed the hearing until tomorrow when he will make an order and deal with the Enforcement that my Partner raised in August 2014 which has still not be dealt with!

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Posted : 29/09/2015 9:00 pm
(@Mom24)
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Hi

Very similar story..How old is the Child? We now have a Court Appointed Guardian and Child has own Solicitor.
If of School age speak with School.
Ours has been ongoing for 21/2 years..1 CAO ignored, SCO ignored Enforcement application still live, Prohibited Steps order..CCI attempted Biased Cafcass officer removed. You name it we have been up against it..but we are getting there..

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Topic starter Posted : 29/09/2015 11:23 pm
(@lollyrus)
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The child is 9. He was 7 when she started restricting contact. My Partner saw him only 5 times in 7 months till he took her to Court. He got immediate contact which moved quickly to overnights and when child was due to visit us in Scotland, she breached and stopped all contact for 11 months, despite the Judge telling her to make contact happen. She hides behind child's wishes and feelings that she's instilled in him by her constant negativity towards my Partner. We hope and pray that tomorrow the Judge says enough is enough and sorts her out.

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Posted : 29/09/2015 11:35 pm
(@Mom24)
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At that age you can request a evaluation of the child as to attain why the child should not wish to see His father.
There are obviously no Safeguarding issues.
We found that every time we asked for something more we got it, Courts wont just disregard previous Orders.
We have now got a District Judge who is assigned to our case so we have continuity throughout..
Ask for a District Judge if not already with one..
Good Luck for Tomorrow..

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Topic starter Posted : 29/09/2015 11:44 pm
(@lollyrus)
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Thank you.

We have a district judge. There are no safeguarding issues. Though the Mother has tried hard to bring up irrelevant rubbish. The child does want to see his Dad and he has a great time with him when they're together but the Mother is determined to influence the child to not want to see his Dad and she tries to control and manipulate the contact to what she's prepared to allow despite Cafcass recommendations for increasing contact. The bottom line is she thinks she is above the law, owns the child and can tell everyone else how it's going to be. She needs put in her place and brought down to earth with a bump.

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Posted : 29/09/2015 11:56 pm
 Yoda
(@yoda)
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Thank you for sharing with us. Good luck going forward and keep posting if we can offer any help.

I've moved your post from the welcome section to the Legal Eagle section where it should get more views and responses.

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Posted : 30/09/2015 11:19 am
 Mojo
(@Mojo)
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I joined your two posts together Mom24, they had the same title and were both in the Legal Eagle section and about the same topic. Best to keep all discussion about the same thing under one thread.

It's been a hard fought journey for you all and I wish you the best of luck moving forward.

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Posted : 30/09/2015 7:21 pm
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