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Is it okay to have a rant?! So here we are....the ink on the order is barely dry and already my partner's ex is being a pain in the [censored], So frustrating! We've had a few peaceful weeks for the first time in 2 years and now we're back to the old frustrations and stresses. I feel helpless to see him tense again.... Suppose at least we know what we're doing and not daunted by the legal process now but grrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Can see them ending up back in court within 12 months at this rate!
She's an unreasonable and irrational person and court orders aren't going to change that... But it hasn't taken her long to get back in gear!
At least you have a platform to try and get her to tow the line now, and the threat of enforcement if she doesn't..... Rant away!
Thanks Mojo..... Feel better, have just helped him write a rather abrupt email so wait and see time!
Can I have RANT TO, wife rang me last Friday after she got court papers, full of abuse for about 5 minutes, then we have good conversation, she's going to arrange for me to see bairn, a week later nothing, ive been off work for a week, she knows that, then txt earlier, not you can see son or were going to talk about our debts, no "I WANT THE CD PLAYER OUT OF YOUR CAR" she bought it for my birthday, car in her name, there may be one [censored] great bonfire tonight, rant over.
I think it will calm down 1626 they always kick off after a order has been made then they realise they have to play ball and chill with time.
Same will go for you greyling she'll be upset as you've started court proceedings just be careful on the communication you dont want a non mol slapped on your [censored].
I bought my ex some real expensive headphones last christmas and when she started being a [censored] a few days after I sneakily stole them back, I'm so glad ~I did as she stopped contact a few days later lol, I bet she was so P****ed when she found out π
Group rant π All welcome!
Haha @ Slim, it's the small things ay?
Greyling, wouldn't it be a shame if that happened! Aghr NO! I thought she was going to start to play ball with you.
[censored] women! π
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