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Hi all again, thanks for your continued help.
I thought I’d update and ask a few further questions. After the ex made probably her 5th call to the police for no reason I went for a voluntary interview and it was no further action. However in her allegations she said I pushed her and the little one hit her leg. Due to this social services have been informed. It’s been a week now and I’ve not heard a thing from the social and I believe the ex hasn’t neither (I’ve been speaking to her sister for any contact regarding my daughter) I went down her sisters to drop a few new toys off and some nappies etc as I’m not going to be bad about things. the ex has stopped contact until she has advice from the social.
How long is this likely to take as I’m really starting to miss my daughter.
Thanks all
You can call Children's Services yourself and see if they will speak to you about what is going on.
They can advise the mother regarding contact with you, but they can't make legal orders about what should happen.
See what they say first as to what they are advising. If they are advising no contact and the mother won't make an agreement with you, the only other route is a court application.
I've read through your other posts and it's unclear whether you have an order for contact or not.
If you do have a Child Arrangements Order, you can try to apply to enforce it by making an application to court. If you haven't, you will have to start proceedings through court & mediation is the first step in that process.
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