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Sadly I did more than just shout and slam a door. The courts are going to rip me to shreds. If she ever did anything wrong, no matter how small I would just lose it and would end up punching a hole through something. I even lost it with her the day she had given birth over something now that I see as so small. I was a fool and so horrible and regret all of it. I just don’t know what to do.
its not the end of the world. if it makes you feel better or positive, i did similar stuff. strictly damaging furniture lol. and cafcass did section 7 report on me and classed this as situational couple violence. where arguments start, and there is aggression. and this stuff happened few years ago. cafcass said its safe for me to see my kids and case closed. i have no police records so guess it was more of an open and shut case.
also the fact that the ex has been letting me see the kids all day, every saturday for couple of months, is taken into consideration.
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