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Hi All
So me and the ex are separated for around 4 months now. We are arranging the mortgage on the house and she is going to buy me out, she has a decision with the bank but needs to organise a solicitor to handle the transfer of the title deeds as well as the transfer of the cash. Now I am willing to try and work together with her to keep legal costs down but she is dragging it out a little bit trying to sort a solicitor due to the fees.
Has anyone been through a similar process, is it worthwhile getting my own solicitor to handle my side of the transfer or is it a waste of money?
Thanks in advance for any info or assistance
Generally, I think it depends on how complex the settlement is, but where there is a majority of agreement between the divorcing parties, it’s possible to do it without a solicitor... there are some really good guides on Advice Now, with really clear and easy to understand info. I’ll see if I can get you a link.
thanks for the links
Hi
Whilst you can sort most things yourself, a good solicitor representing you will avoid some of the delays you have already experienced and any further going forward. Otherwise you are technically reliant on a solicitor representing your exs interests..
To a degree it all depends on the value of cash settlement you are expecting and whether you can handle any undue delays.
If its just the conveyancing aspect and sorting the house then you may even be able to instruct a solicitor on a fixed fee basis.
Not saying you have to get a solicitor, just weigh up the decision.
All the best.
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