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Hi,
My wife and I are very close to separating and it's been coming for years. She has always said when I leave I can't take anything from the home so this led to me having her sign a letter confirming what possessions I can take from the home in the event we separated.
My question is whether this will hold up or have any standing if she contested?
As she is violent and aggressive towards me, the Police will likely be caused when I collect my things so I am just covering myself.
Thanks in advance
Aarron
You could try calling the police and asking them to attend with you, as you have been the victim of domestic violence previously and very concerned for your safety.
She would basically tell the Police the things I am taking are not mine and i would have no proof which is why I got her to sign the letter but not sure if the Police would accept this and allow me to take the things.
Thanks
I would have thought they would, but that’s just my opinion.
You might like to contact Mankind Initiative, they give support to men that have been victims of domestic violence, they have an advice line and may be able to advise you of your rights.
www.mankind.org.uk
All the best
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