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Hi all
Well after 3 days trial
I manage with the last grind of my teeth and some amazing people that pull in their pocket at the last moment to have a barrister for 2 days
He save the day I would say
Cafcass and social service completely against me
My ex completely against any contact unless supervised
We did make point that no finding was ever made the nmo was on consent and once again on another hearing no finding made but was treated as perpetrators
In the but shell after so much pain and debate
Just leave the children with the mother
To me it’s not fair given she hasn’t got home, must have 2 support worker to support her, she has still cbt anxiety treatment ongoing (3 years now) and has be showed that she deliberately stop contacts regardless the children misses their father
But like she said
I was advise to do so!
Anyhow
Judge aware me unsupported contact with the children every two weeks and in less than a month I will have them home for the week end Friday to Sunday every fortnight
System suck but this is how it is and given the fact that she got all the social service and people in her pocket believe her lies well I’m happy with that.
My eldest son(previous relationship) live with me full time and I will have the 2 little munchkins week end and Holliday
Soon , soon she will drew herself up and she surround herself with some feminazi and her father that his such a control [censored] I wonder how she will ever cope but I don’t care
Soon the kids will return home and I believe it’s only a matter of time for the children to ask to live with me like my eldest has done
Now I need to heal, pay my debt and prepare for my divorce as I couldnt Afford yet
She can’t take this from me and she will have to live her life on her own good luck I’m happy 😉
read intro of thread for first time. wow you have been through a lot! I am so glad it worked out for you in the end. hiring a barrister makes such a big difference. as soon as you mentioned that mother is in trouble for alienation, poor living conditions etc this was all heading in your favour 🙂
but i dont understand, you worked 3 jobs, and had tracking app on your phone? is that how much you were scared, controlled and dominated by her??
Hi buddy
Not only that. But the constant threat that she will remove the children. I had recording of her threatening that she will self harm and accuse me of doing so.
I loved this person from the deep of my heart but had to leave her this was hurting me to much and I worried that I would be the same to her. But mostly for our children.
I worked my life to provide for her, gave anything she wanted but in the end you get used and throw away when you need help or can’t do it no more
After 2 surgeries and month of bruise and fight I know I’m strong and can care for the children.
When I needed her she let me down.
Now I will think for me and my kids sadly she won’t be part of my life. I still have feeling but the pain and how things she did to hurt me but mostly how she took and hold the children away for her own benefit will always be on my mind.
My view is I will walk side by side but will not hold her hand anymore.
And will always be on the look out for the children
Like my eldest son they will always know I’m here I love and care for them and will make their own choice one day.
All I wish is that some sort of law or rule would punish people who take children away from their father for their own benefit this system is wrong
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