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Hi Sorry for the silly question
As some of you are aware I've been blocked from knowing what school my son is attending
I recently mentioned that to someone and they said are you sure you don't have a NON MOL or restraining order hanging over you ?
My question is what happens when you get a non mol or restraining order do you get informed / Go to court?
Surly if I have one hanging over me I'll get told
Thank you
You don't have a non molestation order or a restraining order. But someone that doesn't inform you of what school your son/daughter is attending are the kind of people that will look at potentially getting one out against you.
Agreed, I'm being controlled by a narcissistic playing games
Hi SadDad2019
Your situation sounds awful but unfortunately not uncommon a friend of mine who has a similar thing the school refuses to put his name on the system or inform him of anything to do with his child he’s got Pr but they don’t care, it’s to do with his court order if you have a court order stating no access or even limited access the school won’t do it.. If the school/council have see your court order they won’t want to be responsible if you show up at school to see him that’s what they probably think will happen if they tell you, I can see that this is distressing for a dad like you who has had false allegations against him but the school have a duty to safe guard if they believe that the child may be at risk and unfortunately have to listen to your ex even if she is a liar, which very sad, I feel for you.
I’ve seen some of your other posts I think that if his home life is has bad has your stating he will rebel eventually he’s probably just wants to get through school first then seek you out for himself
I know it’s really hard for you but never give up faith one day there might be a knock on the door or a message on Facebook lots of children look for their parents has adults they just don’t want to upset the parents who they live with that’s all.
Thank you
But I very much doubt that I'll ever get to see my son again - Because the animosity the mother and grandfather have for me is being put on my son - And so he must hate me.
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