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Hi sorry to interrupt a good thread, But before you do a c79 try to mediation first about 150.00 pounds if your ex refuses you have a green light to do both C79 and a c100 , with the NH's involved ask the court for guidance as they like to remedy a situation first.
A c79 and C100 can be done for one fee of 215.00
I have done mediation in the past. And its literally no point.
Ì tried to sort things without mediation, with mediation and been to court before.
I just really want to ask for more time and make sure i see her on the day im supost to see her.
Thanks for replying
In the c79 form it asks about why im making the application.
Which i can answer no issues there.
But also asks about last time i seen my daughter which at the moment i have been seeing her.
She did break breach, but now is gone back to normal( well kind of).
Im not sure everytime i go to pick her up if i will have her or not.Thanks to everyone
If the order doesn't specify exactly when the 6 hours should happen, whether it has to be taken in one go, then I'm afraid she could argue that as lng as you get 6 hours in total, she is not in breach.
If things have returned to normal, it might be a good idea to see how things go.
If you want the contact increased, you might like to think about applying for a variation, you could then ask for the days and times to be specified in the order, which would help your situation. Mediation would need to be attempted first though.
Yh im thinking about a new c100 and go from there. And if in the meantime it turns to worst i will send a c79 as well.
I didnt think i would need mediation as im asking the court for longer time with daughter.
As they already gave an order.
So me going to mediation to try and ask for longer time would be going against what they set out in first place.
Plus i know my ex already told she doesn't want me to have daughter at all apart from contact centre.
I have experienced this before and it does no good to the dad when he has to bow to every whim of the mother, yes you can see them at a contact centre and supervised because she insisted this was what was needed... I got to spend two hours unsupervised........ but two hours is better than no hours
Thanks for all your feedbacks.
As again ex hasn't let me see my daughter today. Im just going with c79.
In the past few days i been finishing my c100 but as it turns out she doesn't want me to see her and broke breach once again.
Just one think im not 100% sure.
Should i send a PS together with my form or can i hand it in on the day of the hearing. As thats what i did last time and wasn't an issue, but reading a few things on here and some people say to add it straightway.
Plus i was just going to send it to court the form, do i have to send to my ex a copy of it?
Thanks everyone
Have good day
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