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Hi flybe,
Again, totally unacceptable really.
Would you consider allowing it on the basis that the days you would normally have contact be made up the weekend before this?
For example my ex requested exactly the same the last weekend of the month that i not see my daughter. I would agree but only under the basis that the weekend before i get double to make up. Always ensure that if you agree with the above, that you have it the weekend before the Contact, as speaking from experience, even after agreeing it to go ahead after the weekend of no contact. The mother is likely to withold contact and use that "You see him/her on this date" and "i never agreed to that". So thinking proactively is often the best formula.
Hi, was at court today. Frankly i had a judge that kept saying to go back to my old solicitor. I had very little input, even when trying to explain about my ex pastners past history of depression and use of drink the judge passed it by without any consideration. i requested a report of her depression and use of drink, the judge simply orded for a gp report. I offered to pay for a more substantial report but the judge said no. I tried to mention about the missed contact at the end of october, the judge told me to accept an appology and move on.
Can i do anything about this?
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