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The report was very long and very detailed. Psychometric testing was slightly accurate in places but way off mostly and didn’t describe the man I know at all, the interview summary was spot on though (don’t rate psychometric testing at all, you can’t know a person unless you talk to them). Highly critical of ex, she was totally exposed for what she truly is (some of it even shocked me). Progressive contact recommended, an acknowledgement there will be resistance to this which the court must deal with. Change of residency not supported right now, quoting attachment (as expected), but could be a consideration if contact arrangements fail and all other options exhausted.
So back to court we go and hopefully the judge will finally ignite a light at the end of that long dark tunnel.
Harli
Thank you Lollyrus, good luck to you too. I’m not sure his judge is any better than yours but let’s see. All I know is those children are suffering with that woman and they need to be away from her so they can start to live normal lives. Goodness knows what will happen to her other child, I hope his father saves him from her as well.
Harli
Harli, did you have to arrange and pay for the Psychologist?
if you did i may need you to PM me to discuss
Hi Dad-I-Dad
Legal aid paid for the psychologist, she was very expensive is all I know. She certainly exposed ex beautifully but she was slightly critical of him also in places. All in all though I think he came off better. Happy to discuss if you still want to.
Harli
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