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I've done everything required by the court in the directions hearing and I'm going to start work on my position statement, has anyone got any advice and guidance on how to do a spot on one with the do's and don'ts??
Many thanks in advance
Slim
Thanks mate just PM'd you 🙂
Hi,
I am going start putting together my position statement and would greatly apprectiate if anyone could point me to or provide me any examples. I have seen the template on the custody minefield but really after the kind of things to actually put in it.
Many thanks in advance
"Begin with some background information to clarify your position using only essential facts, try not to digress.
Then move on to the current situation, but remember not to be tempted to go into unnecessary detail.
Above all, do not use your statement to complain about the other party; it will make you seem childish and petty. Your position statement should illustrate what is wrong with the current arrangement, as well as your own proposals for resolution."
That was the key advice our MF gave when I helped my partner write his. Try to keep it brief and informative, no longer than 3 pages if possible.
If you need more specific advice or suggestions please post again and I'm sure one of us will be able to help 🙂
Hi DaveR,
May I be so cheeky and ask you to mail me one too?
That would be ever so useful as my son has to prepare his....
I will pm you my e-mail shortly.
Take care
Kirsten
Hi Kirsten, sending you a pm x
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