[Solved] Poisoning our child and looking for help.

Yep I used words like parental alienation to CAFCASS and my solicitor had numerous conversations with them along the lines what mother said and what mother did where different things he used the words along the lines of mum was not encouraging my son to see me. CAFCASS as I said just put the onus back on the mother to sort out at school someone he could talk to about the negative feelings. We asked mum several weeks ago what exactly she was going todo and we get no response.

Nobody dare mention any anxiety he might have about not seeing me because it might upset his mother lol

Lots of stuff happened in the past about her being awkward about giving me PR judge had todo that in the end and I have a recording where she rang my mobile accidentally and left voice mail message basically saying nasty stuff about me and plotting about prohibiting me seeing and talking to my son.

System in my opinion is still too biased towards mothers. I use the saying procession is 9/10ths of the law, Even CSA reduces payments to the mothers based upon the number of nights the children stay at their dads. Of course in a lot of cases it boils down to money and mums then want reduced overnight contact so they get more money. Sorry rant over lol

I think we need to go climb Big Ben or something lol

Sounds like we went out with the same woman! Refused PR, made contact difficult, nasty messages..... I kept copies of every email and text, but what good does it do? No one seems interested (or maybe able to do anything about it,) and she just got away with it..

As for Big Ben, I'm no good with heights I'm afraid. 😉

I must admit I've been tempted to dangle off my local Cathedral, although I think it does more harm than good I can understand why F4J do it as no one listens to the father the system is so wrong 🙁

ive got film of her violence and abuse and even her saying that il never see my son again and that im not his dad while he breaks his heart.....they don't give a [censored] but I know if I stabbed her in a film or threatened to kill her or one of the kids and the rest that she did to me and the kids then id rightfully be hung out to dry.........im sick of the whole set up but ive a duty to my son and I will find a way. Im terrified of heights nowadays but im game for any demo. as soon as I can afford it il join f4j who are ok but have missed the focus on the kids not the dads. It should be k4j and involve so many more than just fathers and have a much better postion.

k4j would be huge . grandparents and even kids whove been separated and that is such a better platform for success. f4j is one of the worst marketing decisions ive ever seen.

justice for kids (JFK) has a ring to it

yeah it sounds good

Well, tomorrow (Friday) is the day. If you see an extremely nervous man Sat in the corner of your Court waiting room come say hi, it'll be me.

Good luck, let us know how you get on ... Cheers

Well, tomorrow (Friday) is the day. If you see an extremely nervous man Sat in the corner of your Court waiting room come say hi, it'll be me.

Good luck sadly we wouldn't be able to spot you as all fathers seem to be extremely nervous it seems to me it's only the woman who go to court as a fashion parade all happy with smiles unless they need to do some incredible acting ... remember why your doing it and keep it child centred

...We'll be with you in spirit NG 🙂

The best of luck for tomorrow....x

I hope ur not in my court room mate otherwise ur miles from where u should be.....I really really really hope things go well for u bro. please let us know how u get on. whatever happens its just a battle and not the end of the war.

Good luck 🙂