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In a nut shell im doing the therapy i need to do which will be completed in by april And im going to put a fresh application to court i dont know what will happen but im lost without my child and cant live without them any tips or thoughts on this please only reply with sense and ppl have have followed my blog on here and know what there talking about thanks
Not read your blog, but I can identify with your feelings and situation. Best advice I can give anyone that is going through this is to accept that you have a new relationship with your children and that this time should be spent preparing for that.
1/stop drinking or anything else that makes you feel [censored] or wastes money
2/use as much of your time exercising and going for walks, as possible
3/eat the healthiest food possible, even if you hate it, its the right fuel for your brain
4/get over the fact that your ex is a complete [censored] and forget her actions unless called to defend yourself
5/focus on the life you want. think about where you are, where you want to be and make a list of the stuff that needs to happen to get there.
6/call a support group like families need fathers and talk to someone who has experience and can perhaps let you know if there is a meeting going on where you can find support.
7/realise that the system is set up in such a way that half the stuff that you think is relevant is not, so save your energy and focus on improving yourself and your environment.become the best dad you can be. we can all be better !
8/remember this is a long struggle so when in doubt ask for help and be specific about what you need.
Good luck !
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