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This post is not for me it's for a friend.
My mate has been stopped from seeing his few month old baby and his ex is the [censored] from [censored] even worse than my ex was and that's saying something.
She is without a doubt trying to absolutely screw him over she wants a non mol on him for sure everything she has done over the past few months is lining him up for it a treat.
Unfortunately my mate has fell for it hook line and sinker first he's had a warning from the Police that if he contacts her he will get a non mol and guess what he has and now he has got a PIN notice.
Now from the outset I told him to completely block the [censored] out his life I have repeatedly told him to change his number block her off social media and completely block her out his life and leave it all for court and like most dads do he hasn't listened.
Now how much of a nightmare will a pin notice cause him at court? Obviously a NON MOL is next on the cards and it's looking like he will get one for sure :/
i had a pin notice and it it did not show up on the pnc check cafcass carried out, although i admitted on the phone about it in the interview but the letter i got stated that it did not show up on their pnc check , the pin is just a information stating that its making u aware that it could consitute as harrasment but it dont admit any wrong doing, hope that helps
A PIN notice shouldn't cause too much hassle but he MUST not contact her and wait for the hearing. Having said that, even with a non-mol there's usually permission to talk about contact arrangements. As there is no contact happening, there's no arrangements to discuss. He's got the hearing soon, he needs to focus on that and keep his nose clean and show the court that his attempts to make contact have been purely about initiating contact. Good luck with it π
Hi guys the pin was given to me the same day I had my first hearing. Got home from court with the courts giving the go ahead for the DNA test to be done and got home to that [censored]
Excellent Yoda that's exactly the advice I have given him nice one.
Pete follow Yoda's advice man π
It seems a pin is not to much of a ball ache so all is not lost.
Thanks for the advice guys it is much appreciated π
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