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My ex has taking at a non molestation order out on me ( just full of lies ) we have a 18 month son together she has now moved back to her parents house , we also have a first hearing dispute resolution child arrangement order early next year , I'm still having access to my son but its supervised threw her parents ,
I am going to represent myself at an upcoming non- molestation hearing, that I will not contest but will ask for an undertaking
In a respondent statement how is best to refer to your ex ie
The applicant ?
Ex Partner ?
Her name ?
Any advice regarding what to say in statement, and what not to say.
Any general advise
Hi I just referred to my ex as Miss *** , or the respondent or the mother only as repeating the same word just didn’t sound right for me . I’d just concentrate on responding point by point to the ex’s allegations and refer to any evidence you have to back up that they are false . Anything can be used , Texts , emails , even a ticket that you can show you booked for something out of town rather than you being at the exes door etc etc
Why would you not contest it ?
Feel contesting it will it get me anywhere? Is it worth it?
I have contact with her mum so at moment I'm having supervised contact with my son and her mum being present , also the ex turns up and drops him off at the location ,( I'm ment to be this big danger and she's scared of me )
Worry if I fight the non molestation it they will cut contact , that's why thought undertaking might be better ?
We have are First hearing dispute resolution FHDRA early next year she's asking for sole custody and supervised access
Hello Harry6185,
If you are innocent of the allegations levelled at you, I personally would contest it.
I believe a Non Molestation Order or an Undertaking could make contact with your child more difficult and complicate matters even further.
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