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Hi,
Need some advice on how to proceed.
I have a final hearing non molestation order which my wife has taken out on me scheduled for 3rd march. She has provided 22 paragraphs of allegations. All from 2020, some false and some true. But she filed for the non-molestation in December 2021. I have done nothing since 2020. I have a clean police record and the two pieces of evidence she has is me shouting at a third party about her. Not directly at her.
also since November she has been trying to contact me via WhatsApp status and has contacted my uncle to agree reconciliation. Also back in November she messaged me and called me x3 times asking me to come back!
I have done nothing since this order was placed and evidence relates to 2020.
I feel that the judges will go against me, due to her having evidence and me without.
what should I do?
I think you need to document and download/screenshot the evidence you have and present this at the hearing. You can say that she is obviously not frightened of you if she is attempting a reconciliation and the non mol is not necessary as she doesn't need the court's protection. A non mol isn't a criminal matter so it won't affect your job is it does go ahead.
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