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When you applied for the non mol did you ask for it to be heard without notice? If you didn't then it may be worth reapplying although the courts are generally hearing the applications on notice to the Respondent as it saves court time. However, they might make the order with the return hearing listed at the same time as the child arrangements hearing. The other possibility is for the police to arrest her for harassment/threatening behaviour and bail her not to come to the house while investigations are ongoing. Could you look into that? It sounds as though you have sufficient evidence.
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thank you so much! In the end they gave the non-molestation order. She is also on 3month bail, so everything worked out in the end.
thank you so much!
Great news - well done! If it comes to the criminal court you can ask for a restraining order. They generally last longer than the non mols. Witness care will help you but if you're one step ahead, thats aways useful.
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