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I share the views other's have expressed here, reading your first post one gets the impression that this is more about getting back at the ex rather than concern for the safety of your child. Don't get me wrong, I am sure you are genuinely concerned about the safety of your child, but that's not what comes across.
Ultimately, as bad as your ex may be, the courts won't rule in your favour unless you are able to put forward a better alternative.
Your case is pretty complicated. Consider seeking support at https://www.dadsunltd.org.uk/contact/ .
My worry and concerns is this, the client has confirmed he is not her only client that there are others using website adultwork.com, she has doing it from her home while my son is in the home, she is putting our son at risk (it only takes that one client to be violent) social services are not taking it seriously as she has made out im lying and police are now telling me that social are doing a child protection investigation along side their criminal investigation but talking to the social worker he is not doing so, he is believing her lies (she denies working from home), proving her lies in court would help social start to believe me. Not one shred of her "statement of truth" is true.
If you are intending to use the fact that she was cheating on you, I would be very wary - you have admitted that you were sleeping with her while she had another partner, so you are condoning by your actions the very behaviour you are condemning - if you try to use this, it could well backfire on you.
I have no intention of claiming she was cheating on me, I intend to prove she has been prostituting from the home while the child was in the house. Social services have taken her assurances that she is not and not liased with police under joint protocols due to believing her. I have informed SW of all the evidence to back up my "allegations" but they are refusing to engage with me due to the NMO seems when it comes to NMOs it's guilty till proven innocent.
Is she able on the 7th to retract her application?
sounds like court hearing will be all about the rights of [censored] workers lol. i somehow doubt the court will take this so seriously and take drastic action.
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