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HI, my son was born on the 12th of this month and on the day of his birth was told by the nurse my ex didn't want me to see him, I think she has registered my boy without me and was wondering what happenes and if my details could have been filed by her or is it illegal, I am going through mediation but she is adamant it's only gonna be through a contact center, I have a immaculate criminal record and drugs and alcohol every week,she's playing god but I desperately wanna see my boy, he deserves to have a dad aswell! Please help!!!
Hi there
If she has registered him without you present then your details won't have been recorded on the birth certificate unfortunately.
I don't understand what you mean by an immaculate criminal record and drugs and alcohol every week?
If by that you mean that you have a criminal record and use drugs and drink regularly then that may create some difficulties for you if you take it to court.
If she has agreed to contact in a contact centre then it would be a good idea to accept that, many dads start there and after a few sessions are able to get it moved out of the centre.
Yeah but what is the deal with this statuary agreement of parentage about aparently she can get someone of responsibility to sign this and record my details? I mean I have a clean record nothing on it and have records of d&a tests to prove I'm a responsible guy, I am proceedings with court so I can get my son's name double barreled, I have had zero input I found out his name through Facebook, we only broke up because she wasn't happy!
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