[Solved] Need advice or just someone else's look at something.

So she's gone against social wishes and come back home!!

She's had a fight with her mum and dad and now all 3 of them have come back here.

What a head [censored] this all is.

Yes, I'm very glad to see my kids but it's all very mad.

She has agreed to sell the house and split 50/50!!

I've agreed that if she signs an agreement that we are selling and splitting the profit, then I will move out.

Went to court again for child arrangements but they now want to bump it up to a magistrates court, they want one judge to look at all of it. I'm hoping we can come to some sensible decision before all that, especially as we've sorted out the finances.

That sounds like it’s going in the right direction! If you can keep your dealings amicable, you may be able to reach some agreement about the contact side of things.

Best of luck

Well, she's got her own way.

I'm moving out, she's poisoned my son so much.

He stole from me the other weekend, his mum didn't back me up with any punishment.

Then in the last two days he's physically assaulted me! Hitting, punching, slapping, kicking all while saying get cancer and die. You're a Fing C, you're a child abuser etc....

So I come home from work tonight and Social have left mistakenly a voicemail on my phone. I get home and the house is in darkness with my ex wife and children missing. I ring Social out of hours number and they say that yes my ex and children have been in contact and are with them and safe. They say that someone will be in touch in the morning to discuss the events of last night and the Police report.

So my child assaults me and yet I'm the one that Social investigate.

Also I've lost my legal aid as they reckon I have loads of money!!

The whole system is corrupt and one sided to support women.

I emailed my social worker last week about my wife basically saying that my wife has abused me domestically. Her reply when I brought it up face to face, "Well you've made yourself a victim!!!!"

So I'm off to shared home and sadly my children will eventually suffer from the hands of this nutter.

hi,

sorry to hear it turned out for the worst. but is happening with your court for cao arrangements?

It's awful but you have to get your head down, jump through the hoops and understand the courts have the power, not Childrens Services.

When are you in front of a proper judge?

Child arrangements and the financials are being sorted out by the same Crown Court Judge.

I need to dig out my paperwork to see when.

So I moved out on 10th July and spent an hour at the Police station with Police liaison officer and a social worker. They were trying to get me to admit that I hurt my son. When in fact for the 2nd day running he assaulted me, while my ex wife did nothing to try and stop it, in fact she walked away into another wroom of the house.

So I'm now out of there, my daughter wants to see me, but my wife is using the excuse that Childrens services are refusing me access, when in fact CS currrently have no powers to stop me.

So once more my ex is using the kids as a weapon, apparently, my son even wants to change his surname. All these caused by a poisonous woman who will do anything to get custody. She never backed me up once in 18 months of me tryin g to disapline our children. No wonder the poor lad is confused.