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Hi. Please I need your advice on what to do as my ex refuses to choose a contact centre suggested to her based on cour order for supervised visit to my son. She said she wouldn't be able to support the centres because they are too for her, whereise they are the only choices available in the NACC directory that are thought to be nearest to her. I know she's using this as a ploy to frustrate my contact. Thank you
If she's refusing, then ask her where she has in mind?
Hi there
If agreeing a contact centre is part of the order and she is refusing To comply, you should write directly to the judge that made the order, explain the current situation and ask for an urgent return to,court for new directions.
Alternatively you can write to her (copying in the court) and remind her that she is in breach of the current order by refusing to comply. Ask her again to agree to one of the centres that are available, otherwise you will make an urgent application for enforcement. State that you don't want to have to take this action and it would be better for all involved if she complies at her earliest convenience.
If the latter is your choice and she doesn't comply, you can use form C2 to make an urgent application to enforce the existing order.
All the best
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