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So, since the ex said that she was going to make it difficult because I said about mediation well that's whats happened. I didn't see my child at all last week. Meant to be seeing the little one after work however she is basically ignoring my messages today. She only replied to my message asking how the little one was but ignored my times for today. I really just feel that I'm wasting my time, I instructed them to contact her for mediation but can I change this on the basis that games are being played? Would it look bad if I change it to a c100 now?
Phoned the mediators and they have pulled it forward which is good. She has till next week to reply and then they will call her, if nothing then it's a c100. They originally set it to the 8th of March and considering the MIAM was last Monday I think that was quite a long time and they agreed.
Sounds to me like she's thinking along the lines of this is you challenging her.....not you actually trying to see your child.
good luck with this and fingers crossed she sees sense soon
Hi There,
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You will need to continue with the mediation route to start with, so wait until her deadline has past if she doesn't arrange anything then you can apply to the court and your obligation to try mediation has been met.
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Good luck and keep us posted.
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GTTS
The Daddy i have replied to your private message im sorry i have only just seen this now
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