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 Yoda
(@yoda)
Famed Member

It would be a C79 for breach of the order, not a C100. You use a C100 to get a CAO or vary it.

Contact your local court to ask what their procedures for getting an emergency hearing during covid are. Pre virus you would take your forms to the court and wait. This might not be the case in the current climate.

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Posted : 15/11/2020 6:51 pm
(@smallnanny)
Estimable Member Registered

He Has applied online for emergency prohibited steps and specific issue order. He was told to do that. The child is still not back, The courts are supposed to do phone hearings. Emergency orders should take 48 hours. I think he has emailed them again marking it as urgent. We have been made aware that her Mum is taking her to Wales on Friday. They live in Kent.(They are Getting picked up on Friday by a family member) This is against Covid restrictions and my Son has still not seen the child. He is the resident parent. Been a total nightmare!! Does he need to do the C79 too?

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Topic starter Posted : 18/11/2020 1:50 pm
(@dadmod2)
Illustrious Member

they may be slow in email replies. probably better to keep phoning court for update on emergency hearing. if you apply for c79 enforcement now, hearing date could be in 2 months.

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Posted : 18/11/2020 5:10 pm
(@warwickshire1)
Prominent Member Registered

I would phone the police friday and take court order and say shes abducting your child , they have not been to school and going to wales to an unknown location. You got to go round there and stop it as you have nothing to lose

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Posted : 18/11/2020 6:05 pm
(@smallnanny)
Estimable Member Registered

We did that last week and Police said don't have the powers to do anything as not in immediate danger. We went and knocked on the door to collect her and they would not answer the door. My Son has spoken to Soc worker today and told her about the planned trip to Wales. She is going to go round there. She also said she doesn't have the powers to make her send the child back.(although has advised it) My Son also told the Mum he wants to see his Daughter, She needs to come home. She has told him he has to come down there to see her at her house as He wont send her back if she allows her to come to home. The whole scenario is unbelievable. Basically cannot do anything until heard at court. The Mum isn't doing herself any favours by doing this. He's been trying to call the courts but has been in a long queue and not getting through.

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Topic starter Posted : 18/11/2020 7:26 pm
(@warwickshire1)
Prominent Member Registered

Going to Wales is basically abduction so i would be going round there friday and tell police theres likely to be problems so they turn up as well . Exaggerate so they have to come out , child not at school and running off to wales when your son is resident parent

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Posted : 18/11/2020 8:30 pm
(@smallnanny)
Estimable Member Registered

My Son finally got the Emergency court Telephone appointment 8th Dec. The Child is still there. Almost 4 weeks now.
Her school has contacted social services as it's their duty to report missing an education. There is a Soc worker involved at her end. Still not seen the child. Mum said he has to go there if he wants to see her in case he doesn't bring her back!! even though He has residency. Have spoken to her on the phone, but Mum is always on loudspeaker with her and involved in the convo. He can't go to Mum's house to visit due to lockdown, plus he should not have to. Soc worker said wait till lockdown over this week and can go take the child to eat somewhere, but can't now as they will be in tier 3.
Soc worker said maybe the child needs to be told some of the real reason why she was taken away from her Mum in 1st place as she's only being told what her Mum tells her(which is lies) She also said she is now on annual leave so can't be contacted. But if the courts ask her to do a report, she will come off leave. I feel my Son needs to see his daughter to speak to her without Mum influencing her.
Soc worker asked child why doesn't want to go home, Reason was felt like getting told off a lot and She said the child doesn't want to come home as she is scared Mum will die of Covid or get really sick if she's not there.(Mum is a hypochondriac and thinks she has every illness going, she isn't even in high risk group) She also said some of the vocabulary she used wasn't what a child would say(she asked if she knew what specific words meant, and she said no not really) This is mental torture and so concerning.

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Topic starter Posted : 30/11/2020 6:20 pm
(@warwickshire1)
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You got every right to just go round there and take your daughter back. you are a resident parent. She is suffering emotional harm and crucially is been kept off school which means she is missing out on education. Phone the police and say theres likely to be problems before u go around there and say ex is verbally abusive and may thump you .
U want police to turn up really as they then report it to social services, they will side with you as shes not attending school for starters and emotionally harming daughter.

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Posted : 30/11/2020 6:56 pm
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