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Hi thanks to both for the replies. Ive only just came out of a few months panic attack to be able to address anything.
I think i will go for part custody, but i dont know how this will be possible when he stays in carlisle with her and me in glasgow. Can part custody also mean the likes of weekend or every other weekend custody or does it mean a 50 50 split?
hi wyatt,
i see that Carlisle to Glasgow is like a 100 mile drive. if you go to court, you can use distance as a big factor to try and get more time to see your child. you wrote in other thread, that the child is 8 months old? if think its very unlikely you can get overnights right now due to childs age, and ex resisting it. is there something else you can think of, like see your child every saturday, spend a few hours with him in carlisle, close by the mother?
about custody, most common is seeing kids every other weekend, a mid-week visit, and half of school holidays etc.i have something like that. all depends on what you ask for. you can go for 50/50 but i heard its difficult to get. if your not in position to do any school runs and you dont have direct contact with ex,, then i think its unlikely you can get 50/50.
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