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Hi All,
My former has informed me that unless I am prepared to tell her where our children and I are going to be during contact, next week is school holidays and I have them for the week, she will refuse contact and not allow our children to spend the week with me.
I have told her its none of her business and her response is that she has a legal and moral responsability to know.
As I understand what we do in our contact time is our businesss and I have no obligation to inform her especially as I think she is being controlling and wants to make entry into the propert as it is still jointly owned.
Opinions?
Regards,
Dave
Heya Dave, say your staying at your house 🙂
buzz you later
Yes I agree with Boycie...staying at yours.
I could say that but it goes against the grain as she is just being difficult and in my opinion has no obligation to know.
The fact is we are staying at home, I just dont want to dance to her tune.
Do I have to legaly tell her?
Boycie - Yes call whenever mate.
Regards,
Dave
I know what you mean, it's all about her control and if you don't have to dance to her tune why should you.
I don't think you have a legal obligation to tell her what you do and where you go during your contact time. I have been looking for something written about this that you could forward to her but no luck....I do seem to remember a Gingerbread factsheet that made mention of this but can't find it!
Thanks Mojo!
The inevitable happened, she informed me that unless I agreed to it she would prevent our children spending next week with me during school holidays.
Im not happy at all.
Obviously I agreed but made it clear that it was onl as a result of her coercion.
Regards,
Dave
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