Welcome to the DAD.Info forum: Important Information – open to read:
Our forum aims to provide support and guidance where it can, however we may not always have the answer. The forum is not moderated 24 hours a day, so If you – or someone you know – are being harmed or in immediate danger of being harmed, call the police on 999.
Alternatively, if you are in crisis, please call Samaritans on 116 123.
If you are worried about you or someone you know is at risk of harm, please click here: How we can help
Partner left 28/03/2013 with our 4 children, since bogged down heavily with solicitor letters. In fact i have been getting 3 and 4 page ones that are basically a load of dribble and trying to make out I'm a "bad" dad which is totally not true
However just realised she is on legal help scheme but I thought legal aid had stopped ( or is that different ) for separation and children contact unless abuse/violence. Which there isn't nor has that been suggested.
She has been workiing over the last few months self employed and starts work on friday for somebody else
So whats the legal help scheme and why can she get it ?
Hi Cartmell
Legal aid is still available if your ex is alleging DV and can support it with evidence of GP, stay in a hospital, SS , Police, or if the children are at risk, risk of abuse, or abduction.
She may have been working, my guess is as you state she is self-employed, she is not earning a great deal and as there are 4 children, allowance is given for those children.
Yeah assuming even if she is on state benefit and there has been no violence or abuse how come she can still get legal aid
Im claiming job seeking allowance and I can't get it
Hmmm...if you are sure she is not alleging DV etc she cant. I suspect some are alleging abuse in order to get legal aid though.
However one thought crossed my mind, that she may have applied for legal aid just before she left.....as long as it was dated before 01.04.13 ..she would get it.
Welcome to the DAD.info forum.
We don’t like to set ‘rules’, but to make sure that you and the other dads are kept safe, we have some requests. When engaging with the forum, please be aware of the following:
- The forum is not moderated 24 hours per day.
- Many of the moderators do so on a voluntary basis. Whilst they may be able to provide some guidance, advice or support, they may not be able to deal with specifics.
- We are not an emergency crisis service so if you or someone else is in immediate danger, please call emergency services.
- If you are concerned about the safety of a child, please click here to find the support you can get for them (link to new page)
- If you are in crisis, please call Samaritans on 116 123. They are open 24 hours a day, 7 days per week.
We hope you find this forum a supportive environment and thank you for joining us.