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Today is the day, after an agonising 10 day wait the judgement is due in a couple of hours. I’m scared, how can one person decide whether something happened or not, can that person see through lies. It’s not enough to just hope, she has to because if she believes the lying ex, her lying husband and her entire lying family his life is destroyed. I couldn’t cross my fingers harder for him, he’s done all he can, he’s told the truth always, he’s done nothing wrong except love his children and want to protect them. Please cross your fingers for him too ... I’ll update later.
GOOD NEWS .... Just had a message to say no findings against him, on a short break then back to see how ex fares. I’m so so so pleased for him. I’m awaiting further details. Hoping now that ex get the book thrown at her ... hard.
BOOOOOOOM, excellent news, well done and I'm with you on that, I hope she gets the book and the library thrown at her
so what happend?
Basically the judge found ex to be a liar and an alienator, words such as “unforgivable” were used to describe some of her actions. However he still can’t see the children and it’s back to court in the New Year for yet another directions hearing. So really really good news on one hand but on the other deep sadness as he’s still got no idea when he will see them again.
Thanks for all the support guys, truly truly appreciated xx
Hopefully, it's a foundation though, and that it's starting to go in the right direction.
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