[Solved] Is this reality...

My lawyer finally sent me my wife's final statement yesterday... What a damp squib it is! Only 3 pages (mine is 10 pages) her only evidence she is exhibiting is the orginal single assessment that I got quashed by my MP for being bias, mental discrimination and failing to safe guard. My exhibition proving my innocence and her lies is 77 pages long of text messages, bank statements, photographs, medical evidence, you name it it's there.

Also she has backtracked from her rape and violence claims, no mention of it at all now, since her own police disclosure/statement shows her lying. Still no mention of her [censored] offender sugar daddy.

A real kick in the teeth she is whining she only gets £1100 universal credit a month. I'm getting £400 ESA and from that I'm paying £425 rent on my home I can't even live in! She's living rent free and has free lawyers unlike me. She also lied she has no savings yet I can prove she has £3000!
I can't work out how she gets £1100 however? Joblessness, child benefit and eldest son's disability (which was about £200) I'm wondering if she falsely claiming housing benefit? Any way to find out?

The one bit that made me chuckle is that she is whining thar my Landlord from a housing association is ignoring her and her lawyer, begging the court to hand my tenancy over to her. What she doesn't know is that the domestic abuse wing of my housing association doesn't believe her and my landlord off the record told me as well she's just a squatter.

I’m not sure who you would talk to about housing benefit, but you could contact the council and tell them that you are making payments on the property and see where it goes.

Everytime I feel a bit positive... My lawyer just blind sided me with a £3100 office work bill! That's wiped me out :boohoo:

How would I go about ringing up the council? "I think my ex is claiming housing benefit, but I'm paying the rent on the property" feels a bit sleazy

Just find your local council number and ask for the housing benefit section. If she is claiming benefits when she's not entitled to, it's fraud. They may have a reporting fraud hotline for reporting this type of thing.

I get that it doesn't sit well with you, but do you think she would hesitate to report you if she thought you were doing the same thing?

I got my safeguarding report from Cafcass.

They recommend:

Wife's partner ([censored] offender) should be requested to consent to checks

I should provide a letter from my GP on my mental health (I've done this a month ago?)

The Steps Order on the [censored] offender to remain in place until further order. (Seems to me, wife wanted it removed? Why mention it otherwise)

What I take exception to is the Cafcass officer seems to have an old fashioned view on mental health by the tone of her report. I have OCD it in no way impacts on my parenting and symptoms are self contained, no one would know, and it's even useful sometimes. But she writes mentally ill people are at risk of making unsafe and inappropriate decisions regarding their children! She makes me sound like I have schizophrenia or another psychosis disorder. Very offendending and if not discrimmary. Even my wife and her 101 lies never mentioned my decisions. At the end of the day it's not me running off with a 4x [censored] offender, commiting immigration fraud, possible benefit fraud and about to commit Purjury.
My mum won custody of me with much worse OCD with symptoms she pressed on me, like being super clean. So why would my mild form be highlighted like this?

Tomorrow morning the Vicar is taking me out for breakfast to strategize on my occupation trial on Thursday, should be interesting.