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Curious how this stands
The mother has stated she would stay if she kept the house and the father moved
The mother doesn't want to stay there in the first instance, nor can afford to on her own.
Father pays all household costs.
This query has only come round from the mother understanding the father has taken advice, without said advice the mother would be off to another part of the UK.
A lot of data on here says no not leave the home. Would a court rule for a father to leave in this instance to maintain tain the children in a local area even if finiancially its not viable for the other party to undertake living arrangements and therefore provide a roof for the children's heads?
Hi
I think you need to take some legal advice, especially as you are in Scotland.
Having read your two previous posts it seems things are from being decided.
At present, it's probably better to stay where you are until you can both reach some decisions.
In a financial application in England, a court has to look at the affordability for both parents before reaching any decisions.
Best of luck
Hmm ok
Got legal advice on the go, but I can't really bother him every 5 minutes
But will go over those details again next time I speak with him.
The mother has now taken to emailing all correspondence for a paper trail. They have been acknowledged but not answered until have been discussed.
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