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To cut a long story short, I took my ex to court last year because she kept cancelling contact without agreement; regardless of whether I had made plans or not.
We now have a child arrangements order in place, but I have just received an email from her cancelling a weekend in August in order to take the children on holiday.
She has not asked whether this is ok and simply informed me that this is what is happening.
Whilst I do not wish to stop the children from going on holiday, I do not want to fall into the same trap of weekends being cancelled without discussion or agreement again.
Advice please.
Hi
Is there a reason you've duplicated your previous post here? I have already responded on the other post, it's not a good idea to have two identical posts going at the same time, as it can be confusing. Would you like me to move the other thread into the legal eagle section?
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