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Thank you to the PINK Elephant! Yeah, she is really bad. She is very manipulative. She even got legal aid by saying i was controlling. If you saw the messages and heard the recordings you would be shocked. All I ever wanted was to see my children and they even felt they couldn't come over. I was in the garden once and one of my children came as a surprise, i was rushing them off because the ex came to the door and said "What are they doing here, its not their day"
Moral of the story is I need a spine for Christmas, take a deep breath and send her a letter.
yes send her a letter you have written yourself. solicitor would charge you £50 to send letter, and she will most likely ignore it anyway. also i forgot to mention, that someone reported my ex for legal aid fraud, and her legal aids been taken away :p legal aid is not just assessed on abuse claims, but income/savings as well. if she has lot of savings, then she may have fraudulently obtained legal aid.
Quick add to Bill's comment - anything you send by post, send recorded/signed for so you have proof she got it - or refused it.
yes good point. i have been sending pdf letters through whatsapp. easy to keep records like that. back stuff up in email account or google drive etc.
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