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Hi every one
I just been to court yesterday and again the case is listed for final hearing.i tried to prove everything written in cafcass report but as cafcass ooficer was not present.can any one give me advice about the cafcass recomndations .in report officer has written that childen being told to much inappriorate information so now they have that much fear they dont want to see me she recomans indirect contact but its what i have .i raised the question that from last six months
I didnt hear from them at all.it looks like i have to parties to fight now the defdent and the cafcass.i also raised that there is no crime at all in my crb recorded but i dont know why i am stopped from any supervised contact at all.
Your advice means a lot for me
Thnx
Hi there
At the final hearing you should have the opportunity to ask the CAFCASS person questions about their report, you can also prepare a statement to read out in court, to explain your position and why you think,
that contact should be moved to a contact centre for a specified time and then have a schedule of unsupervised contact to work with, where contact is increased gradually.
You can say that you have no criminal record and you are a good person, that it is the children's right to have you in their lives. You could suggest that the children should be given counselling to try and repair the inappropriate and damaging information they have been given about you and you can suggest that the mother be helped to understand the damage that children suffer when they are involved in the affairs of adults; perhaps suggest she be guided to attend a Separated Parents Information Programme, which would help her and give her insight into the damage that can be done by involving children in this way.
All the best
Thnx mojo for last advice.can you also guide me what are the difrent levels of care are and what shall i do.judge asked me last time that which care i wany either primary etv.i was v confused when i adked the question that if my ex dies what will happen to children .she answred that they will go to her family which is not understandable if real parent is still alive .can you please advise me that which care shall i apply for.i dont know but i think she is newly appointed thats why she makes me to much confuse
Can you help me in this matters as well
Thnx
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