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Right not all sorted but moving forward. Court have orderd we both attend a course separated parents programe this will be seperatly. We have another hearing on the 5th June for which we have to prepare statements of evidence( which is good as I've got loads) ex has asked cafcass to do further checks on me even though she has said she has no concerns about me with son as they first report showed nothing but supposedly it should have as police were called and attended when son was there.( cafcas told me today this is nothing to worry bout it will show police were called ect but no further action was taken) ex is not budging atall says I have been violent through are whole relationship. And that son is in routine so overnights are a no and she's breast feeding( when her solicitor was going on about breastfeeding the judge actually exclaimed ' but he's nearly 2 and a half' and cafcas also said the court would not accept this. I felt it went really well and that they were on my side. My solicitor reckons ex will cave in and not go a final contested hearing as she would have to be cross examined and I have loads and loads of evidence. ex still doesn't want me doing handovers as I'm aggressive to her mother but on the time
She said I was I recorded the entire thing on my fone and I never spoke a word to her. ex also said I was bombarding her with texts which is hilarious as I obviously have all the texts and they consist of making arrangements and asking if son was ok when he was unwell. court said they might recommend a section 7 report depending on what cafcass come back with but my solicitor said she didn't feel this was necessary as ex has said she has no concerns about son in my care.
Sounds all good in your favour mate This sounds like a carbon copy of what was brought up in the directions hearing on Monday I wouldn't worry about a thing man all her lies will unravel in court like my ex's did I like you have loads of evidence and I just kept counter acting her every allegation with it all, it was beautiful just agree to everything and you will be fine I've agreed to drug tests, parental courses I said I will do what ever it takes and it all goes in your favour.
Good on you man keep fighting and never give up 🙂
My ex wouldn't budge one inch on any sort of contact at all but that showed she wasnt atleast prepared to move things forward which looked good for me, how did you find it in court I absolutely loved it, how long is it since you seen your little one?
Thankfully Iam seeing him at the moment 1 and half days a week. But she is opposed to me having son overnight and me doing handovers. She has said to the court that Iam a good dad and she has no concerns about that. It's all so funny actually she's tying herself up in her lies. Iam only asking for 1 day through the week and every other weekend cafcas agree it's not unreasonable what I'm asking for.
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