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Hi There,
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It's difficult to say what will happen in court as each case is different, it is important though to keep calm and not allow her actions in court to show, if she is constantly making sly comments or sniggering at you then raise this with the judge.
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I would also be careful of taking anything from her facebook or at least allowing her to know you have it, she could try and claim harrasment as she has blocked you, it sounds as though she would try anything to make more issues so be careful.
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when you are talking in court address averything in words around your son, so "my son hasn't seen me in over 3 years now" and make everything about him, the courts look for whats best for the child, clearly talk about how you want the relationship with him, but aim things around whats best for your son rather than whats best for you.
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GTTS
Hi,
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I think I'm right in saying that you can record it but unless she knows that she is being recorded you wouldn't be able to use it as evidence in court.
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I would say that the remarks and things are her trying to unsettle you and get under your skin, it's easier said than done but just shrug it off, if she sees your not reacting then chances are she will stop.
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GTTS
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