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Hi folks
I am keen to find a solicitor who has solid experience of dealing with cases where false allegations and alienation are key factors. Maybe I am looking for something that isn't there, as most seem to steer clear of alienation as a concept. Be interested to know what the experience of others is.
Brad
Hi all,
When shopping around for a solicitor to represent you in a separation/custody case, what questions would you be asking them?
Can you expect them to be able to tell you things like how many clients they currently represent? What their track record is in terms of cases won?
Secondly, if anyone has a separation that has involved false allegations made by their former partner, is it enough to have a family lawyer, or do you need also to appoint a criminal lawyer?
Cheers,
Brad
Your best bet might be to search the law society website, but that may not give you the full picture.
In my experience solicitors are only good for processing applications rather than representing you in complex cases. However, you will need a good barrister and if required a good result from a CAFCASS section 7 report if applicable.
If it is likely that the case will go to a final hearing, then save your money for a barrister at this stage only, as during the 1st and 2nd appearances you should be able to represent yourself.
Good luck.
I've moved your post here as it's really part of the same subject.
I have to disagree to some extent, in that my solicitor (10 years ago) was excellent in all respects, and I don't think I'd have got anything like as far as I did (I got custody of my daughters when my ex had had them for 2 years prior to that, at a time when it was unusual for fathers to get custody). However it cost me a lot - total legal bill, including barrister when needed of £40k and that was after a 20% discount for family connections, so a good sollicitor doesn't come cheap. At the time, I knew nothing of self representing, so that wasn't an option for me anyway. I do agree that a good barrister is worth the money.
You can certainly ask for a track record, but I'm not sure that they are obliged to tell you, and even then, there's no such thing a straight win or lose in many cases. How many clients the solicitor has isn't a good indication - it could be that if there's a lot, then he's good at what he does, but equally, he may be over stretched.
I would say that the main criterion is whether you think you can work well with him/her and that you are inspired with confidence, because it is going to be a working partnership while the case is continuing.
This link might help, but remember the top solicitors and barristers charge more.
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