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I absolutely agree with Dad-66s advice... just keep it light and happy and avoid talk of the past, their mother or the court. Maybe plan what you will talk about, think what interests they have, and ordinary things you have been doing since you last saw them. Just make it as enjoyable and relaxed as you can... they may be a little quiet at first, that’s normal, just fill in any gaps with chat and they will come round I’m sure.
If they have any favourite foods or drinks, or maybe some fruit, you can take that in for your session, some comics maybe, or anything else you think they might enjoy.
You’re getting there Chris... best of luck.
ideally, if you can think of some activity that involves you both, something a little more complex that will require to to help would be ideal, so there is more interaction with you.
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