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WOW!!! Finally a contact order has been made! I'M OVER THE F***ING MOON!!!!
Court went really well I played an absolute blinder! I fought like a dog and my Position statement was an absolute winner even though I didn't need either but it impressed the court no end!!!!
I'll give you guys a full rundown once I've got my head together as I'm completely screwed I feel like I've done 10 rounds with mike tyson, I'm ruined!!!!! π π π
A very happy slim!!!! π π π
Hi Slim,
SO pleased for you mate and I know exactly how you feel, the build up to the final court appointment is awful, and when it's all over the come down is a nightmare, I remember mine when I left I walked out feeling so good, but absolutely hanging, ended up going home and sleeping all afternoon.
Congrats mate, Look forward to reading more.
GTTS
I had a good feeling about today, so needless to say I'm extremely pleased that you have come away from court happy, and have good news to share.
The fact that you went well prepared with a good statement showed the court you were professional and meant business.
Very much looking forward to hearing the details!
Simon.
It wasn't the final hearing GTTS just the review hearing the next one is mid Nov but they've finally issued a contact order until then π
I'm in bits completely destroyed massive thanks Simon I merged your help with NJ's and they were blew away with The Position statement and how I indexed my bundle and cross referenced everything I would of been screwed without this site π
Cant thanks you enough Simon π
No worries mate, absolutely thrilled that I could help you be able to see your girls.
I know how you must be feeling now, huge relief, immensely happy, drained....but it was all worth it π
Now you get your chance to be the dad you want to be π
Wonderful news Slim! :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
I am so happy that it went so well, but I won't push you for the gory details right now..However I expect a full run down when you've come down from cloud 9!
I know it's not the end of the road, but its progress and considering the god awful S7 you got, you have worked a miracle!
Don't worry a full rundown will be coming once I've pieced myself back together I honestly can't thank you enough for all your help the magistrates and Judge were awesome this time they mentioned 5-6 times at how impressed they were with my bundle and position even though they didn't need it as it was a review hearing I still managed to get them to leaf through it, I ripped the s7 to shreds and cross referenced my evidence to my folder and every time I said "my evidence is section 5 - 5:3 they hurried to that section it was great to see so my plan worked a treat π
You can tell the d**k heads just like having something to refer to it was ace, so pleased cafcass are no longer involved I was expecting the court cafcass bi**h to be there and was over the moon when she wasn't π
They gave me position statements back along with the 4 folders and told me how to improve them and let me off with bringing them in when they we not needed so I played on playing dumb as I was self repping π
So pleased I did take them in though so that puts me in good stead for the final hearing.
Thanks again NJ merging yours and Simons advice together worked a dream π
Slim π x
Thanks Eric I'm over the moon inside but can't smile I'm completely destroyed mentally my body is screwed it's took it's toll I think I may have had or may be having a little breakdown :/
At least I can see the wood for the trees now π
Yup made my day I knew cafcass were no longer involved but I thought the [censored] would be there still I'm over the moon they're out the picture, utter scum the lot of them, the Judge magistrates ect were brilliant they are getting wise to my ex's lies too π
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