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Your case sounds exactly the same as mine, the order of things happening is a bit different but all there.I applied for 50/50 shared residency a couple of years ago it’s was refused, because she made out that I wasn’t involved in all aspects of his life. I did all the school stuff, parents evening etc but she never lets me take him dentist, haircut, she went on all school trips (she works at the school). She had also moved in with her boyfriend and his 2 children, said not seeing them all for a week would have emotional impacts on him. Shared residency doesn’t have to be a 50/50 split it can be 60/40, 70/30 etc. what contact do you currently have?
Your case sounds exactly the same as mine, the order of things happening is a bit different but all there.I applied for 50/50 shared residency a couple of years ago it’s was refused, because she made out that I wasn’t involved in all aspects of his life. I did all the school stuff, parents evening etc but she never lets me take him dentist, haircut, she went on all school trips (she works at the school). She had also moved in with her boyfriend and his 2 children, said not seeing them all for a week would have emotional impacts on him. Shared residency doesn’t have to be a 50/50 split it can be 60/40, 70/30 etc. what contact do you currently have?
@warhammer hi sorry didn’t see this , thanks for the reply. What was your outcome ? I didn’t win the nmo claim I accepted an undertakings , in retrospect I wish I’d contested it but I was under pressure as ex had stopped my contact .
How did you win the non molestation claim, any info greatly appreciated.
Any updates on this situation? Hope the outcome was as hoped.
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