[Solved] False Allegations

Flying monkeys is exactly what they are. They fit the description of flying monkeys perfectly.

It's a great term to explain people like that.
It's inevitable that somewhere down the line I will most likely have to communicate with my ex and the same will probably apply with you but for now the no communication is what's working for me and although I doubt my ex's attitude will ever change it's not the case for everyone and co parenting can sometimes be achieved through time.

Kids pick up on things at an early age and are very observant so another thing I would avoid is bad mouthing your ex etc when ever your child is with you. Once you have contact make it about you and your child and also show them how great a dad you are and give them the love and attention they need and your child will grow up with a different view of you to the poisonous views of many a bitter and vindictive ex.

yes good points. be careful. its amazing what young kids such as 3 year olds remember. they notice EVERYTHING! even though they visit my place every other weekend, they notice that the curtains in the front room have changed. one asked me, how comes mummy didnt give any clothes with us this time?

yes good points. be careful. its amazing what young kids such as 3 year olds remember. they notice EVERYTHING! even though they visit my place every other weekend, they notice that the curtains in the front room have changed. one asked me, how comes mummy didnt give any clothes with us this time?

My little one is 3 and picks up on everything as well and will tell me whats been going on back home without me asking anything, she will just come out with things hence why I mentioned it to Justbeingdad to watch what is said around children.

I'm getting fed up of the games from the ex and I can't lie, it's stressing me and getting to me.

First of all, her friend claimed she moved out of her dad's address just after I submitted my C100. Her friend didn't give me her new address. I'm not sure whether to believe this anyway as she's lied about moving before. She's definitely received the court order as a friend told me she told him. She's not filled out the C7 acknowledgement form (probably argue she didnt get the court letters) but I've been told by members on here not to worry about that and just turn up to court. Cafcass will be phone interviewing me in few weeks and I assume they'll interview her too (if she's bothered responding to their emails).

Then last week she started a CMS claim despite me already starting to make payments. I can only imagine this was [censored] for tat in response to court papers she received. Today I received another letter from CMS where she's provided details of the account she wants payments made in to but for address it states "not provided". I feel this is just trying to rub salt in wound. Almost like "hey not going to tell you what my address is".

I told CMS that I started making payments the day before she lodged app for CMS and also paid her a lump sum for my son out of goodwill. Their reply "yeah sometimes we don't get why mothers apply when father is already paying". But they won't tell her that and they won't tell her that the lump sum I paid was out of goodwill and CMS wouldn't have been able to get that out of me.

She ignores my texts and wants to use CMS to communicate with me. I find it very childish and immature. She's only able to do this because there's a kid involved and is trying to control me, payments and not letting me see son.

I have been going through this mess since 5 months now of alientation and ignoring me. Now despite me doing my part of making payments she can't do her part. I feel tortured, humiliated, vilified and feel like she's turned this in to a battle where she's always winning. It's getting to me. She always gets one over me.

Fed up of this and court hearing hasn't even arrived. I'm getti thrown about just because she didn't get what she wanted and decided to leave me but only come back on her terms. When I said no and that I had enough the punishment started.

When will she get that she's being immature and childish?!