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Ex in prison until Oct 2018. Also believed to be mentally ill by Mental Health staff. No contact with children (age 11 & 8) in last five years except for mag cuttings and strange comments. Has threatened her mum and myself in past.
I have residence order. She is not allowed contact or to return to 'home' without further order.
She refuses any contact with myself too (same with prison staff: " not co-operating" as she believes she is a Deity)
Any advice on how to proceed...with anything/?
Hi there
I'm not sure what advice you're seeking to be honest, you have residence of the children, she's not allowed contact, or to return home... on a legal level, I don't think there's much more you can do.
Why do you want to have contact with her? perhaps it might be better to disconnect and let the authorities deal with her, shes away until October and her mental health does seem to be quite serious and in that respect contact won't be reinstated anytime soon.
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