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Thanks mojo, I have no one for a third party so I'll be as vigilant as possible.
If you can't get a witness, at the very least, set up some video cameras - you can buy them for as little as a fiver, so you could have them in each room.
I am currently in the same situation. Kids have stayed overnight and progressing to more nights. It was recommended in court that I allow her visit to which I verbally agreed (no court order) but I do not want her coming into my place. She threw a hissy fit for a while, much to be amusement :).
There were many things recommended by the Judge which she refused to uphold like allowing my parents to see the kids. Call it [censored]-for-tat but ex keeps thinking she's the superior parent, which grossly annoys me. I think it is another way of excersing control and somewhat to evaluate my lifestyle since the split, I haven't asked to 'inspect' her place neither and don't want to.
Cheers mate,
I let her come and have a look and it was ok, but the control and superior parent things are very very annoying
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