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Hi just about at my wits end !
My Partner and I are splitting up we are not married and have been living together 15 years we have two children
We drifted apart but I found out over a year ago she was cheating on me and despite attempts at reconcilliation she has not given the other guy up .
She is now demanding more than half the equity in the house we are currently living in
The House has to be sold we agree on that the total equity is approx 200K
She wants 130K because she works par time and would not be able to buy a 2 bed property in our area with 100K and and a mortgage.
She also says she is entitled to more because when we bought our first house she put down the 15K deposit.
I don't feel this right for two reasons
1 the 15K equity was from a previous property so does not count as her share anymore
2 I will pay 20% net salary to her which will leave her only slightly worse off than myself
She is threatening court action which she can't afford ( and neither can I ) and so I want know if she has any credible claim.
Thanks for looking and any advice greatly appreciated
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